Reality TV show First
Dates reveals the ins and outs of matching potential lovebirds
We all
have that one datable colleague who seems to be the perfect match to
that single, lovelorn friend from college. Playing the matchmaker
sounds like harmless fun, but setting them up without knowing what
they want in a partner, or whether they have anything in common,
might just put them in an awkward situation that you unwittingly
helped make.
Without
practice and experience, you might end up with more misses than hits
that could have terrible consequences on your friendships. It would
help to pick up a few tips from the pros, like maître d’ Fred
Sirieix and his crew on Blue Ant Entertainment’s British reality
show First Dates. Not only do they give romantic hopefuls a
chance at love over cocktails and dinner, they also pair people based
on their personality and what they’re looking for in a partner.
So
don’t let the excitement of romance get ahead of you. Before
letting loose Cupid’s proverbial arrows, there are a few basic
things to keep in mind that will up your chances of successfully
matching singletons in your circles, or at least convince them to go
on a date without risking your friendships with them.
Are
they interested?
You
might think it’s sweet to set single friends up behind their backs.
NEWSFLASH: Not all singles are unhappy being single! They may not
even be ready to date, so your “sweet gesture” might just turn
against you. If you think two of your friends might work out as a
couple, best to ask them first if they’re interested in dating.
No
two singles are alike
Singlehood
won’t automatically match two people. Find out what your single
friends are after in a date, like personality, hobbies, or career, so
you know who among them are compatible. Be detailed. Don’t just
tell them you know someone who looks great and is looking for a
relationship. Still, be ready with a few pictures—with consent, of
course.
Movie
vs. coffee date
You
wouldn’t want the first date in the movies where your potential
lovebirds will end up glued to the big screen and not talking to each
other. Encourage conversation by having them meet in a cozy café or
a hip but family-friendly restaurant. Just avoid locations that are
too “off the beaten path” so they don’t feel trapped or forced
into a romantic situation.
Want
more tips on matchmaking? Catch First Dates Mondays to Wednesdays at
8:50PM (7:50PM JKT/BKK), first and exclusive on Blue Ant
Entertainment. Blue Ant Entertainment is available
on SKYcable channels 53 (SD) and 196 (HD), SKYdirect channel 35,
Destiny Cable channel 53, and Cablelink channels 37 (SD) and 313
(HD).
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